Love – or someone who – loves you, wants to know you; has your best interests at heart; is aware you’re not your body, your words, your mannerisms; your traits, – as you are aware of this. They’re aware that you are not the sum total of, or measured by, any of this.
Underneath this, too, is the core essence to this judgement. Vulnerability can be expressed without any judgement that it could mean inferiority, worthlessness or a means to attack.
The indeterminable identity is loved and thus the expression can be respected but by no means held as identity.
One pushes people away because one judges themselves, and not that they’re an eternal, holy identity expressing itself.
spring nh ’24
thegoldendolphin 
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