how to stop people pleasing
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Consider the self you want to save from trauma.
No one can put themselves in a box – not even if they want to. Here I consider how the exclusive concept is the trauma; that we may come to readdress who we want to save: who we are, and what that means. If one considers themselves indeterminable – who they are; what they are Continue reading
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In prayer, I asked the question ‘Why have I gone through so much hell?’ ~When guilt persuades us it is Love.
Summary Overview:– The image of debt and separate self are the same. Guilt supplants the voice of love – it is congruous with judgement/self-judgement. Love is not an authority nor is it cruel; this illusion calling itself love advocates that to see as whole, to see with grace is contrary to reality and truth; it Continue reading
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My unworthiness was never authored., it has no effect on reality – Improvised talk.
Further notes and expanded comments on the above recording:- How does one determine between lovelessness and love?; something that would ask you to be different before it can’t love you; emotional responsibility; notes and past inquiry; one can’t be anything but what they are; misconstruing lovelessness with love; reality is complete; Our Self is complete; Continue reading
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